The Top 10 Ways to Choose a Good Partner
Here are the top 10 ways to choose a good partner using your emotional intelligence.
1. Sexual attraction is based on a primitive and powerful
feeling that can "hijack" us.
It comes from the reptilian brain and is automatic and powerful because it relates to our survival. It is not, in
itself, a reason to act or react. Dont let yourself get "hijacked." Take a second look; get up to your limbic brain (bonding, parenting, relationships) and your neocortex
(thinking)for this important decision. More on this later.
2. Touching is very important to our mental and physical health.
Choose a partner who is affectionate, who likes to touch you and be touched.
3. Most communication is nonverbal.
Choose a partner who looks at you with affection and kindness in their eyes. Emotions are contagious and largely transmitted through the eyes!
4. Think as well as feel your way through this decision.
Emotional intelligence means using all 3 of your brains .........
Read this entire dating article?
1. Sexual attraction is based on a primitive and powerful
feeling that can "hijack" us.
It comes from the reptilian brain and is automatic and powerful because it relates to our survival. It is not, in
itself, a reason to act or react. Dont let yourself get "hijacked." Take a second look; get up to your limbic brain (bonding, parenting, relationships) and your neocortex
(thinking)for this important decision. More on this later.
2. Touching is very important to our mental and physical health.
Choose a partner who is affectionate, who likes to touch you and be touched.
3. Most communication is nonverbal.
Choose a partner who looks at you with affection and kindness in their eyes. Emotions are contagious and largely transmitted through the eyes!
4. Think as well as feel your way through this decision.
Emotional intelligence means using all 3 of your brains .........
Read this entire dating article?
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